The
process of the interview was difficult. In the interview with pastor PG, it was
uncomfortable. You can tell by the scattered conversation. G thought it would
be different interviewing a female pastor, but it wasn’t easier to converse
with her. It was probably because she is somewhat common because she is seen in
the pulpit preaching on Sunday mornings. More conversation was added, with
small conversations. It is hard to interview someone with a higher stature and
also a platform.
G:
Hello how was your day?
PG: Hello, my day is just getting started. Off to
a pretty good start. Im a little sleepy, but hey what’s new.
G: It’s
nothing new really. School, that’s all. I’m just trying to keep my grades up.
PG:
That’s always a good thing. What’s your GPA?
G:
Yeah, I’m trying. My GPA is a 3.1. I’m trying to get it higher.
PG:
Just work hard. You can do it. What did you want to talk to be about?
When
G asked the relationship with the choir it seemed like the interview sped up.
The response to the choir about PG’s relationship with the choir her answer was
loaded.
G: I
just would like to talk to you about your relationship as pastor, with the
choir. Is that alright?
PG: My
relationship with the choir is a fairly decent relationship. I understand the
importance of the choir in relation to the delivery of the message from God. I
believe the choir has first contact with the congregants in relation to
preparing their hearts to receive the message. Therefore, they need to be in
tune with the flow of the service to ensure they are aligned with what needs to
be shared with the people on that day. I believe my ministry and that of the
choir walks side by side because the choir can minister a song that will be right
on target of where the Lord is leading and it will help to facilitate a life
changing moment for someone.
G
thought the interview would get better. The questions that were prepared seemed
like the interview would be solely about her relationship with the choir. The
questions that were prepared were in expectation of the choir being the focus.
G: In
all of your years of ministry, how relevant is the choir during your sermons?
PG: I
can honestly say in my ministry the choir hasn’t played that large of a role in
sermon delivery.
G: In all of your years of
ministry, how relevant is the choir during your sermons?
PG: I
can honestly say in my ministry the choir hasn’t played that large of a role in
sermon delivery.
G: Does
song selection matter?
PG:
Song selection and flexibility I key in the flow of any worship service.
The replies from
PG were slow. The replies weren’t what G
expected. At this point G was the dominant in the interview. G tried to get the
focus questioned answered. The focus question was, to analyze the relationship
between the pastor with sermons and the choir. However, as the interview
continues the question is far from being answered. G had to think of something
that would escalate the conversation. So she asked about PG’s experiences as a
minister of the gospel. PG had more to say. The level of comfort was better.
Her experiences as
a preacher overall didn’t revolve around what the choir sang. She had one
experience where the choir sang a song that changed her sermon. She listened to
the voice of God that changed her message. The choir sang a song about praise
and God gave her a message about praise.
Excerpt
After
PG began to share her experiences as a minister, she was comfortable. She said
that her level of comfortability is more with the youth and young adults. She
said how her ministry changed. At this point of the interview she became the
dominant person in the interview. She gave her experiences with a traditional
pastor and congregation. She talked about how uncomfortable she was.
G: So
can you tell me about your experience with preaching? Is there any examples
that you would like to share?
PG: My
experiences with preaching have been a journey, one of stretching and growing,
a very rewarding journey. Since, I first came to realize the call of
servanthood in the capacity of preaching at a young age I had the struggle of
growing in life and God at the same time. A challenge in and of itself. One
example of a challenging yet rewarding experience was being a young lady newly
licensed in ministry and coming in contact with a gentleman that did not
“believe” in women preachers. He was very vocal and starch with his opinions,
and made no attempt to hide his thoughts. This particular Sunday I am on
schedule to deliver that morning’s message. He openly said, “ I did not come
here to hear a woman, the Lord said women are to be silent” I immediately
started feeling all types of emotions, fear, anger, intimidation to say the
least. I remember standing in the pulpit and looking over towards that man and
praying that God would just have his way in me.
I sense that at that point PG felt
how G felt at the beginning of this conversation. She was a new and young
preacher and had to speak in front of a congregation that didn’t like to or
wasn’t use to hearing a young woman preacher. They were not use to seeing a
woman behind the pulpit. At this point she began to pray for herself.
So I
shared the message from Ps. 23_ “ Will you be my Entourage” In reference to
Grace and Mercy following us all the days of our life. I stayed focused and on
target about what my assignment was on that day. I made it through the message
at the end of the service this gentleman approached me and said,” I must shake
your hand, I don’t have a liking for women preachers but I must say the hand of
God is on your life and you preached a very good message today” Those that know
this man including his brother was floored. They shared with me that he NEVER
compliments a female preacher.
The
questions changed, as well as the focus. My focus question is now how it is
difficult to interview a person of stature.
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